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A Peek Into My Life…

So, I kind of took the summer off. I had a lot going on – finishing Saving Their Wolf, going to an educator’s conference in Portland, OR, vacation in Iceland, and a lot of headache and heartache about my teaching job. But I’m back now and you can expect lots of news over the next month or so (including a charity anthology and a new release).

To make up for my absence, below are some pictures from our trip to Iceland (just click on an image to see a larger version). We drove the Ring Road all around the island and hit most of the major sites. We chose Iceland partially because my son’s middle school science teacher suggested students go now while you can still see glaciers; and partially because it’s only a 5-hour flight from New York – closer than Great Britain, Ireland, and continental Europe.

Because I’m a huge language nerd, I studied Icelandic for a couple of months before we visited. It is hard! But I mastered some greetings, counting to 20, and lots of food words. And I barely needed them at all. Everyone all over Iceland spoke English. Road signs were mostly in English. Menus were in English.

It was a wonderful trip, but I was happy to come home to some warmth. Summer in Iceland is a heckuva lot colder than summer in New York. I can’t imagine what it’s like in winter.

Happy Fall (or Spring if you’re in the southern hemisphere)!

Shifter Hunters Ltd. Update

Kenya Calling cover

Exciting news, friends! The Shifter Hunters Ltd. series is coming out of Kindle Unlimited!

This means that if you don’t buy your books at Amazon, where the 3 Shifter Hunters Ltd. books have been exclusively on sale since last year, you’ll finally be able to buy this series. All of my Nook, Kobo, and Apple Books peeps will finally be able to get in on the action. Stay tuned for details (ie. specific store links)…

This also means that if you DO buy your books at Amazon as part of the Kindle Unlimited program, and haven’t yet read Shifter Hunters Ltd., you have until October 6th to read them. (The books will still be available on Amazon, they will just no longer be part of the exclusive Kindle Unlimited program.) You can find them here:

Kenya Calling

Wolves of Paris

Lord of New York

 

A Peek Into My Life…

Peek into my migraine life

I am a migraine warrior

Unfortunately, migraine is a huge part of my life, and has been for about 20 years. I thought they started in my late twenties, and never knew what triggered  the beginning.

But I’ve been doing some research lately, and it’s possible I’ve always had them, but that they looked different when I was a kid. I missed a fair amount of school when I was a pre-teen – not enough to cause problems for me academically or to cause problems for my parents with school administration – because of headaches and stomachaches. The pediatrician told my mom it was “school-itis”. It was true that I didn’t like school then, so maybe he was right.

June was Migraine Awareness Month and I learned a lot from it. I was even able to teach my dad, also a Migraine Warrior, some new information (for instance about kids – if he’d known about that when I was a kid, he probably would’ve taken me to a neurologist when I was 11). (Also, shh, I’m not allowed to talk about my parents online.)

Anyway, I’ve been lucky. I don’t have Chronic Migraine, which involves 15 or more headache days per month. At my worst, I averaged 11 per month. That means I have what’s called Episodic Migraine. I’m also lucky because I’ve never ended up in the ER because of a migraine. I’ve rarely missed a work day. I rarely need to take a break from my life. I’ve become really good at pushing on and forcing the symptoms away until I’m alone or at least done with whatever most important thing needed doing that day. I don’t know why I’m able to do that. Or when. Because sometimes I can’t.

Sometimes I can’t focus on my current writing project. Sometimes I can’t handle people talking at a normal volume. Sometimes I have to skip Taekwondo.

I tried going to a neurologist about 6 years ago. He’d been recommended by my GP, who I liked at the time. We tried a couple of different drugs aimed at preventing migraines, but they didn’t work and had awful side effects. Life-endangering side effects. The last drug exacerbated my Reynaud’s Disease. When I told the neurologist, he explained that exacerbating Reynaud’s was a known side effect of this particular drug and that he didn’t know I had Reynaud’s. It came up in our first appointment.

While still on that last drug, I decided to try acupuncture. I’d been researching it and found a local place that practices what’s called Community Acupuncture. This means they see more than one patient per hour, which allows them to lower the cost per session, which is really awesome when you don’t have insurance or your insurance won’t cover preventive therapies. My research told me that acupuncture has been proven in actual scientific studies to reduce chronic pain.

My neurologist’s reaction? “Call me when you’re ready to try the next drug.”

I haven’t called him again.

acupuncture for migraine

I’ve been doing acupuncture since 2014. It took a while to figure out the points that worked best for me, for there to be a significant decrease in severity and frequency. But we got them down to about 2 headaches per month. It was amazing. I felt like I’d been given my life back.

Unfortunately, it didn’t last. Life circumstances got in the way. My job responsibilities and hours changed, and I was no longer able to travel to my acupuncturist even once a month (they’re 40 minutes away from home and an hour away from work). By the time my hours changed again and I could again commit to once a month, I was back up to about 8 migraines per month. Not as bad as before, but still demoralizing and draining. My acupuncturist changed around that same time, too, and the new one was too gentle. It took me a few months to get up the courage to tell them what had proven to work best for me.

And now I go as often as I can make the time. So far this summer, I’m going about every 10 days. Because of my age and changing hormones (always my biggest trigger), I have good hormone months and bad hormone months, which means there’s a wide range for my migraine frequency. I get between 2 and 7 migraines per month now. I hope that will improve by the end of the summer.

Sure, 5 years ago I thought I’d go for a few months and be cured, based on others I spoke to. However, my body doesn’t work that way. My body needs to be regularly reminded how to heal itself, needs to regularly have my chi pathways reopened.

Are you a Migraine Warrior? What has worked best for you? Tell me about your experience in the comments.

ETA

I’ve had an amazing response to this post through the comments below and emails from readers. I’m sorry that so many of us suffer from this terrible and misunderstood disease.

In case you’d like more information or more support, please check out these links:

Chronic Migraine Awareness, Inc.
CHAMP (Coalition for Headache and Migraine Patients)

And we can sign the Declaration of Rights for People with Headache Diseases from CHAMP.

Bisous and big hugs to all the Migraine Warriors out there!

Hot and Steamy Reads

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Waking her Wolf is in the Hot & Steamy Reads promotion running from today through July 31. There are lots of really hot romance books, in every genre (including erotica), all for free.

Please share this post and my link widely. Bookfunnel now keeps track of how many clicks each author brings in and I could use the help. (https://books.bookfunnel.com/julyhotandsteamyreads/d8pyu6ut0n)

What are you waiting for?! Go grab some super hot free books!

Interracial Paranormal Romance

I was recently featured on the blog of author Carol Van Natta in a post about interracial paranormal romance books. Carol wrote a wonderful post about why we don’t see more interracial romance books, and especially those with people of color on the covers. I’m honored to be featured along with eight other PNR books. Please go check them out!

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When I wrote Pride of Africa, I wasn’t trying to be groundbreaking or even different. I’d recently come across a lot of PNR books in which the human form of a character didn’t match their animal, and this bothered me. If a shifter is an African lion, it seemed to me that the human should also be African. So I wrote a series in which the human characters matched their animals, starting with a lion.

While my next series doesn’t feature any interracial romance, my new series, Paris Harem, does. I created Martin Diop, the Senegalese elephant shifter, precisely because African elephants are my favorite animal in the world, and I didn’t get to include them in the Hotel Safari series. (Instead, there’s a Thai elephant shifter in Thai Rebound.) I had a lot of fun writing Martin and his romance with Catherine Malraux.

Please share your favorite interracial paranormal romance in the comments!

Waking Her Wolf is live!

Great news, friends! Waking Her Wolf, the prequel short story to the Paris Harem series, is now available to all via BookFunnel. It was previously published in the Shades of Pink Anthology for Breast Cancer Research back in October 2018, but can now be downloaded for free by anyone. It just requires you to join my Reader’s Group.

Waking Her Wolf cover

Wolf shifter Catherine Malraux left her family behind in Paris for a new life in the south of France. But a tragedy left her alone and unwilling to risk falling in love again. When tensions rise against shifters in her new home, Catherine turns to her best friend, Nico, for comfort. The only problem is that Nico wants more than friendship. Can Catherine overcome her fears, or will she lose her best friend and a chance at true love?

Grab your copy of Waking Her Wolf here!

Happy Pubiversary!

Today is the 3rd anniversary of the release of my first book in the Hotel Safari series – Pride of Africa. Yay! Happy Pubiversary to me! And thanks to you readers for joining me on this wild ride of a journey!

In honor of my pubiversary, I’m giving away an ebook on my Facebook page. Just comment on the Facebook giveaway post with the name of your favorite character from one of my books before 10 PM EDT tomorrow night (Sunday), and you’ll be entered in the giveaway.

Winner can be from anywhere and will choose the ebook of your choice from my repertoire.

A Peek Into My Life…

Puppy Update - Foxy Apr 2019

It’s been a while since I’ve featured the new puppy on the blog (but he’s been on my Instagram and Facebook page plenty!), so it’s time for a puppy update. Foxy is now almost 8 months old and still very much led by his mouth. He chews on everything, of course – any of our body parts that come within a certain proximity of his mouth, our clothing, piano legs, any and all corners he can get his mouth around, anything he finds on the floor or the ground. He seems to especially like to bother my youngest son, now 13 years old.

Sometimes he seems amazingly smart and sometimes incredibly dumb. He mostly sits when told, but when he doesn’t get what he’s expecting quickly enough, he’ll lie down, as if he’s trying out that response to our command, just in case sitting wasn’t the correct action. He hates my laptop and will bat his paw at my hands when I’m typing, or hit the keyboard himself if I don’t move it out of the way in time.

He tries to take himself for walks by holding onto his leash with his mouth. He’s just starting to lift a leg when he pees. Yesterday my son came in from walking him and said, “He’s finally a boy.” Just in time for neutering!

And he’s very cuddly and sweet – especially when he’s not trying to bite us.

Hope you’ve enjoyed this puppy update. Tell me about your beloved fur babies in the comments.

The Time I…

…Was asked to translate the lyrics to a Prince song

The Time I Translated Prince

Back in college, four friends and I went to France for Spring Break. We found some cheap flights, and a couple of us stayed with my aunt and uncle in the suburbs, so it was a pretty inexpensive trip. (Not sure you can find tickets to France for just a couple hundred bucks anymore.)

Other than touring around Paris and experiencing its nightlife, we took the train up to Épernay in the Champagne region to hang out with a friend of mine. We went out to a nightclub and had a grand old time dancing to songs in French and English. And of course, some guys tried to dance with us. I don’t remember anything about them other than the odd request one of them made of me. Prince’s song Cream came on and this guy wanted me to translate it into French.

“Sure, no problem,” I said.

Silly me. Have you listened to those lyrics lately?

Cream
Get on top
Cream
You will cop
Cream
Don’t you stop
Cream
Sh-boogie bop

Not the easiest lyrics to translate into another language. So, that was fun. I guess I did okay, because the only other thing I remember about these guys is that they invited us back to their place for tea and cookies (really – we had tea and cookies) and they let me drive their car and I kept turning on the windshield wipers when I meant to use the turn signal.

Have you ever had to translate anything into another language? Or had to act as any kind of interpreter? How’d it go?

Hot Spring Romance!

Hot Spring Romance

Hot Spring Romance

The weather is finally warming up (and the snow finally starting to melt here in Upstate New York), so it’s time to grab some Hot Spring Romance books – for free! Snuggle up and warm up with one of these steamy reads.

Snap them up between March 20th and April 30th.

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